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Thomas, Annie & Nellie

Joined the army at the age of 15 to serve in World War I.

After the army in London

The bass baritone.

Acrobatic dancers (the lads being lads).

He always joked that he was the 4th musketeer.

Outback, Kangaroo hunting!

After the Elizabeth by boat business (with Scotty)

Dad said they posed for a joke ...it wasn't even theirs.

The single parent at 53!

The tyre business at Stone's Corner, Buranda

Ramblers End was the first Showroom Car auction of its kind.

He turned disaster into a booming business.

Ralph, Robyn & Susan

His only attempt at art was haunting

At 70 he started restoring this boat.

At 70 he still practised yoga daily.

Dad & his second wife 'Pat' who I adored.  The best of friends they shared my bridal table for me in 1977.

He returned to Englnd in 1979

The   Physical   Timeline

1899 Born in Solihull, then as a child moved to Birmingham England, with his father a Master Builder, Alfred who left his then wife, Annie Pace. Alfred was the fourth child of sisters Bertha; Emily & Annie & a stepfamily from a later marriage, he was often allowed to get away with much by his doting sisters and when chided for impish behaviour could be found slightly over an arms length away, squatting beneath the dining table objecting cheekily with the muttered words 'Buggar, buggar, buggar'. (An English term, I believe).

1904The early death of his mother changed the family structure dramatically. His father also called Alfred, took Freddie, the youngest when he remarried & left the older girls behind to fend for themself. A difficult situation for women in the 1910's. Alfred's known for his capacity to drink, quickly committed himself to a second marriage which also produced a large family, as yet unknown. My father never spoke much of those times separated from his beloved sisters. Suffice it to say he left home as soon as humanly possible and always stated profoundly "A man who indulges in excesses, is no man at all".

1914'Freddie' as he was called by the family, joined the cavalry regiment ....& yes he put his age up to be accepted & later admitted it was a foolhardy escapade & that 'patriotism' was for the people but, war was not for humans. That was as much as he ever discussed about those years. But, he marched every year until his death, for his comrades who fell beside him in the French dugouts.

1918After being wounded, gassed & bombed in France he was discharged from the Army of World War I.

1921During a period after his army days, he wandered without setting down roots as many returned soldiers did. He turned his hand to many forms of employment, including building as his father before him but, his adventurours spirit found no solace. He eventually gave up the dubios enterprises, which included attempts at street photography of people (a good way to meet charming women - he once confided); & assorted business attempts; which included pig farming.
He spoke lovingly of those pigs & his dedication to a preganant sow seemed to exceed common sense when, as an amazed child, he told me how, he slept in the snow bound sty in below zero temperatures with his favourite pig, until all the piglets were born. His wife used to bring him hot tea to keep him warm. Well, it started out hot, but was rarely worthy of the title by the time it reached the sty. I dare say, he had first hand authority when he once referred to my bedroom as a 'pig sty'.
It may have been frost bite that finally drove him to imigrate to Australia with his first wife Joyce, where this budding country offered opportunites not always found in post war Europe. Although he always said, he only left England because, he couldn't bear the cold winters.
Although, I was given the impression both of them wanted a new start. This may have been the result of miscarriage when their first pregnancy resulted in the loss of twin boys & the news that they would not be able to have children. My father always spoke of it as a double loss for he felt that he was never able to alleviate the pain Joyce suffered. She had been involved in the medical field & the trialing of 'Tampons' & always worried that she had inadvertantly caused the medical problem that prompted the premature loss of the 'twins'. My father was more sanguine and accepted the 'meant to be' aspect & for all his life, Joyce remained 'queen' of his female ideals. I only remember her as the sender of lovely gifts from Canada where she had moved after remarrying a gentleman who was crippled in an automiblie accident they suffered in Fiji but, it left a lasting impression of endorsing my father's ideal. When in 1963, contact ceased, he refused to confirm the worst - for to him she would always be, with him. He kept her picture with him all his life. She truly was a beautiful image for him to remember.

1932Single again & gifted with a charming bass baritone voice; a flair for lyrics; & an athletic body; it wasn't long before he found himself in the entertainment industry & touring Australia headlined as a Singer & acrobatic dancer.
He loved the stage & his time touring but, once again wanderlust took over & when he was told of the money to be made 'outback' he didn't hesitate to take a break from entertainment to go 'Kangaroo Hunting' back of Bourke.
His stories of his dogs; the netting of dams; his love of isolation; & how even when alone, he always set the table for dinner under the stars; were wonderful to hear. His sadest tale that hung with him was the death of his favourite dog 'Wolf' who in an effort to protect my father, was killed by a boxing Kangaroo. He kept a souveneir of 'Wolf' with him all his life & according to his wish it was buried with him.
Kangaroo hunting proved to be as lucrative as he was told & within a couple of years he had made enough money to invest in 'The Elizabeth Bay Boat Business'. At this point he started leading a rather high life. Wine; women; & song; were his major motivations, only eclipsed by the new love of his life - his boat, 'Bona'.

1948Pat & Sunny - Mount Druitt Country Club.

1953

1956Fire

1958Recession

1963Kingswood

1978Death of a companion 'May

1978UK return

1980His remarriage on his 80th birthday.

1981Death February, 19 from heart failure.